For the record, I’m of the “pigmentally-challenged” (I find the term “white” to be offensive, lol), while my wife is not. Our kids are mixed, and we are members of an (self-identified) African-American church.

I know there’s a kernel of truth in each of these, and frankly anyone would be/should be insulted by “I don’t want my daughter to go to that country (Philippines). Why? She’ll be in the minority.” That ain’t “questions from white people that feel racist” — that’s just plain vanilla racism…