Here's why "both-sidesing" doesn't work. If your family wants to live like this - totally cool with me. We probably won't hang out much as your wife and mine won't have anything in common - but seriously, you do you.

But - when you try and pass laws to ensure that everyone lives according to your (current) belief system - that's a theocracy, not a democracy. You can cry all you want about "cancel-culture" or "intolerance from the far-left" - but there aren't two sides to that discussion.

I used to know a couple of woman who played this role for a while - but funny thing is that they divorced their sorry-assed husbands and built some amazing lives.