I’m having a hard time wrapping my brain around this, but don’t want to minimize anyone’s pain b/c it’s very real.

Been with my wife for almost 30 years. During that time our incomes have swung all over the map (up/down/sideways) and I don’t think we could even go back in time and try and recreate who made more during which year.

Doesn’t matter.

What I won’t do however, is play video games while she’s making dinner or cleaning — nor will she do the same…