My oldest is now 17, and 5" taller than me. He’s a bit of a mess as well, although he has no one to blame but his parents and the piss-poor genes he’s inherited from them…

Here’s the thing: You will remember. You will remember all those things you mentioned, and more. You may not have them at your fingertips like you do now, but I can assure you that there are some crazy triggers that will bring them all back down on you.

Fun fact: I binged on your blog b/c I was wanting to remember all those times when my wife and I (28 years now, going stronger than ever) were a hot mess ourselves and were trying to figure out everything at once. It’s a glorious time that I never want to repeat, so your posts gave me permission to tip my toes in that water again…