Not a brag
Read something the other day that tried to break down with actual numbers where one fit in terms of economic "class". When I told my wife we were comfortably in the top 10% her responses were (direct quote, and I apologize for her language) "holy shit" and "there's no fucking way".
We have friends like the men you describe and we view them as you do - disconnected aliens from another race. The wealth disparity is so completely insane that it's becoming impossible to even visualize a system so out of whack-