Sean, I say "yes" to every damn thing on this list - going on 28 years and stronger than ever. There's no magic bullet - except to remember that sometimes there is - and you're expected to know :)

Laughter, Flexibility, and a coffee date every Sunday morning while the kids sleep in - the importance of these can't be overstated - oh yeah, and the separate bank accounts thing is key. A lot of wisdom in your words.